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Old Feb 21, 2013, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna View Post
NO.... I have trouble saying things that will hurt the others feelings. I did tell her she smothered me. Its hard to talk to her because all she does is cry and I just get madder and madder. Our communication sucks. No matter what though, I'm going to be ok.

MY H does this too.. Will censor himself b/c he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Right now, he thinks I am too fragile (IMO anyways).. And it drives me crazy. I want the truth.. Just sayin' she may need to hear it. You can say it in a loving way, it doesn't have to be in the middle of a fight either..
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