Yss i think you are right. Otherwise my life is going to be sexless. I dont think im pretty just normal andhave had good sexual relationships before so i cant be that bad lol. I have told him that im going to look elsewhere but i dont think he believes me but he has only got himself to blame. We now sleep in seperate rooms so really do only share a mortgage. I just want to be happy and he should be happy too and isnt so why wont he let me go !!