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Old Feb 21, 2013, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I just meant that group you drank wine with and painted.
She needs to get some friends, in my opinion. You can get friends without her permission. One person cannot be everything to any other person as I see it. And the whole concept gives me the willies.
Yep, that has been a hard lesson for me to learn. I was always a social person, but I relied on my H way too much when it comes to making me happy. I am learning how to rely on myself for stuff like that. He adds to my happiness, but shouldn't be relied as the sole source.

Lola- it is ok to talk about it here. It is good for you to have a sounding board. You can't always be the one helping!!
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Thanks for this!
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