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Originally Posted by jadzea
I feel the same way. I used to try to talk to my friends about my needs. I found they only wanted to talk about themselves and were not willing to help me so I stopped talking. I keep listening to them and try to help them though because I know how desperately people need to talk sometimes.
I have one friend who starts dumping on me the second I pick up the phone. Sometimes I want to scream at her and tell her I can't handle her problems at the minute. I have enough of my own. She doesn't care where my head is at. She only cares about lightening her burden.
I have no solution but I can relate and give you some sympathy.
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i know, its the same thing with my friend too, its always her needs first, like no one matters and its the same situation over and over. You start talking about your problems then somehow it goes into her situation and yours is never resolved. And like she has to announce it to the whole group as if we dont know or she is more important or above the rest. its maddening sometime. ( whoops i vented lol)
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