My dad pulls the same crap with my oldest sister. She got it the worst from him; but he is always doing things like sending her flowers, etc. She doesn't know how to react and he cries to my stepmother about how "unforgiving" my sister is.
A life long friend of my sister's committed suicide recently and, when my dad caught wind, he carried on about what "a beautiful flower" this woman was, and how he always knew she was "special," blah blah blah. That made us so mad because my dad molested this woman when she was younger!!!!!