I'm sorry I'm confusing

thanks for your reply Fooze.

You see Fooze, where the number up on your "notification" says 1. and then how you copied the list and it says one- whatever message.

Well, mine shows 3... and then it shows on the Unread Profile Visitor Message-- 3 also. BUT-- I don't have any unread I've read them all. why won't it go back to 0 now? Every time I log in it shows 3... it doesn't go back to 0.
I think it's stuck-- do you know how I can get it unstuck?

fins