hi IT

i'll be the first to admit i'm overly sensitive when it comes to things men say so ... i hope you don't mind if i say what i'd have thought about the conversation you described?

from my overly-sensitive point of view i'd be a little worried (if the conversation was just as above) that you were really only looking for a live-in housekeeper and sex on tap.

i know that may sound weird to you but i have extremely low self-esteem whereby i struggle to think anyone could really care about me just for me, hence the reason i'd think the above.

it's just a thought but maybe she has similar self-esteem issues.

sorry if this opinion offends you, it's not meant to.