I'm extremely nervous about writing this...

When I was 11-14 I was friends with a bully (who was the same sex as me) we started off playing 'intimate' games and she became 'obsessed' with my body; leaving bruises on my chest and putting objects inside me and mocked me for how I looked nude; she also made me do the same things back and I felt dirty for years.

Flash forward to now and I suffer from spasms that stop sex/penetration and have panic attacks before being intimate with my husband.

I don't know how to class what happened when i was younger as; any opinions would be appreciated. I don't think it was SA but I don't know what to call it!