Seeking - Hamstergirl's post was perfect. I can't think of a much to add. (We are so lucky to have her here!) Please look at the home page of this site for the area on disorders and read up on depression since you are interested in learning more. It sounds like if you both want to work on the marriage, seeing a counselor together will be needed in order to learn how to talk through your issues effectively in a supportive environment. Good luck!

Michelle/HG - Thank you again for sharing yourself with us. Your expertise is going to help so many people.

Emmy

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