Couple of things: the word deserve wasn't even in my vocabulary. Not sure if it is yet. 2nd is, - wait, is this trdleblue? I can't see. Being afraid of having to pay TOO MUCH for accepting something good. ETA: I think it's related to the mother coming crashing in. We're worried no good can come of such a deal. How much are we REEEEEALLLLY gonna hafta pay? We don't have that feeling of security built in. We have a feeling of alertness to danger built in. T is trying to give us a soft place to land, instead of forcing us out of the nest, or begrudging us our place in the nest.