So I have been dating my boyfriend for just about 2 years now. Most the time we have a very good relationship. However, every once and while we hit a huge bump in the road. Normally, something happens that is not a huge issue but because it has happened so many other times there is a huge blow up. When this happens, we will not only argue about whatever has just happened but everything else that has happened in the past months. We have talked about how we need to communicate better and I think we are getting better at expressing our feelings. But sometimes think that he is just not able to do what I need at that time. For example, I have migraine heads, that can be pretty bad. I woke in the morning with a headache, which was horrible, and he show no concern about how I was feeling. I was getting sick and he didn't even check on me. When i saw him later in the day, he didn't even ask how was feeling. Some times I need just a little consideration. Is this wrong? things like this happen fairly often. What do you think?