Thanks ...

This is a tiny tiny town in the bible belt of Tennessee .. Women around here seem to think the husband has the say so about everything.. I have asked Mary before why she jumps everytime he snaps his fingers.. she said "hes my husband" I said .. ya know this isn't the stone age anymore? She said it's what she knows.. ( we have had the conversation many many times over the past 5 years)

I don't see anything changing on her side.. and I won't deal with his ignorance anymore.

Life sure is funny