Oh.. the poll is up now.

My T is just right. Not perfect or anything, but she is very nice.

Sometimes it bugs me. I have told her that there are times I don't talk about something because I don't want to upset the "nicey-nice" atmosphere. She once redirected a discussion by saying "I don't want to argue". When I emailed her about it after, I wondered if I was not worth arguing with/about, if it would upset the "nicey-nice", etc. Sometimes I feel like a good argument would be something good - it could lead to things that might be useful. Her answer was that she was really talking to herself when she said "I don't want to argue" and that she felt she was not being helpful when she heard an overly rationalistic debate that she was somehow initiating. We haven't got back to that for me to fully understand what she meant. Thanks for reminding me to go back and hash it out with her