Ok, so I am the one who voted too nice...my T is truly the kindest person I have ever met. The only reason I think this might be seen as detrimental is that in being so nice he is missing some things about me that are big, that my ex-T picked up on right away, because HE was "just right" and didn't let me get away with "stuff"...the ex-T would call me on my crap.
Not sure this one knows I am sometimes full of it and I need to be corrected or else analyzed to the point where he says, "no, it's actually this...you are using a defense mechanism." My ex-T was awesome at calling me out when I needed it, and I grew the most with him.