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Old Feb 22, 2013, 07:06 AM
Syra Syra is offline
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Originally Posted by Torn Mind View Post
She pulled the rug on that completely yesterday. She set conditions and expectations on me that made it impossible for me to continue in therapy with her - it ceased to be 'therapy' in the moment she set out her demands of me..... And I might add, not once did she take responsibility for this being about HER feelings vis a vis my emails, she just continually repeated that they and I were extremely critical and highly destructive .

For what it's worth, and I know there will be many here who will automatically assume that because the T has judged my emails as critical then they must be, they were not.
I don't assume that. I know it can happen. It happened to me. In very similar fashion. the therapist didn't own her feelings. The therapist blamed me for things I don't think were true and wouldn't discuss it. The therapist put me in a box that I didn't like, and then when I wouldn't go in the box ended discussions. Some therapists don't do their own work, and are in it for the wrong reasons. I'm sorry this happened.
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Thanks for this!
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