Thanks Sky..... and yes I agree, one should never make another feel bad or degraded when talking with them about a problem.

We let our son know that it was normal for him to be attracted to the opposite sex and that love and love making will we wonderful with the lady he finally falls in love with and marries, but that he needs to control his desires and lustful ways as to not create problems that him and his wife might have to deal with later on in their own marriage.... IF his looking was to go past the norm and lead into a sexual addiction - my husband and I even shared some of our struggles and pain that was created due to porn and lusting.

My son was very comfortable with our talk with him on sex & porn, for we have always had the door open to any thing and every thing that needs to be talked about in our house, and all without condemnation.
He says that he understands that we care about him and that we are not trying to keep any thing from him, but rather that we are trying to help him have a better life and loving trusting marriage one day.


LoVe,
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