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Originally Posted by Big Mama
geez, OMG that is me. 1-4 that is me. That is exactly what I do. Now it gets me no where except warn down and exausted. I can't believe I feel the same things you do.
Emotions are bad, sex is bad, touch even non sexual have the potential to evoke emotions, touch even non sexual have the potential to be come sexual it's all bad.
I am sorry you are feeling all these things but it helps me to know I'm not alone. Thank you geez for helping me see I'm not alone.
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Sorry you are going through this to ((((BigMamma)))). One thing I am going to try with my H per T's suggestion is to say we can cuddle/hug but it won't lead to sex so there's no fear in that it will lead to something else. Started doing that today and it feels like a ton of weight has been lifted off my shoulders for the time being.
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"Be careful how you speak to your children. One day it will become their inner voice." - Peggy O'Mara
Don't ever mistake
MY SILENCE for ignorance,
MY CALMNESS for acceptance,
MY KINDNESS for weakness.
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