I realized that my H and I were like those dominoes... and in our normal interactions when one of us was upset ...all of the dominoes would get knocked down...

Now when one of us gets upset... and the other realizes okay this is their issue and I'm not going to get upset too... and just try to love them through it... and that has made it like removing a dominoe from the middle and it stops all the other pieces from going down too...

boundaries and owning our own stuff ... not expecting the other person to fix (make you happy) you has made amazing changes in our marriage...