I really support your determination and commitment. Being in a married relationship is ideal. For me I think that is God's design. I did have a pretty rocky time getting there.
Sexual desire is a complex issue. I do not believe that ones sexual desires can be so easily pigeon holed as they are in the popular media. We span a broad range of "sexuality" and "desire", not just 2 or 3 categories. Most things in our world are on encompass a broad range. Furthermore we change over time