David Waller's book on Attachment is pretty popular with people here. The psychology forum hated "The Emotionally Absent Mother" that I recommended - I think some of them buried it in the backyard, they found it very triggering. It had a lot of lists, and it was too depressing to keep answering no no no... I have been looking for the same thing. I don't think it's as popular a research subject as the similar thing for boys, unfortunately. Sexism in research or what, Idk. I have seen the odd article saying that it affects a girl's gender identity formation. I would agree with that.