Oh yup, I totally get where you're coming from. I'm sorry. :[ The BMI chart is so basic though, it doesn't really distinguish bad weight from the good weight so it's inaccurate a lot of the time. Could just be muscle or water weight which is nothing to worry about. And I think people are frank about these things (at least to me), so I'm sure if they say you look good then you probably do!
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