But the problem is (or ONE problem is) what if he has a client after me? He is very good at being on time for me -- and we always end on time. As a therapist does he realize could fall apart? I mean, I'm a "big girl" (41) and can stuff **** well enough to get out of the office, but should I? When do I ask for special consideration? I seriously don't understand when or if this is ever appropriate.