I am so sorry, BlueInanna! I'm glad you found the block button. I wish you found it sooner. Please try not to be hard on yourself about your kid's genetics. You try so hard, and are a wonderful parent. Your older son is working so hard to change. Try hold on to the good moments with them. You know what bipolar can wreak havoc and hurt everyone in the path. Both your sister and ex are just lashing out to anyone and everyone they can. Your so caring that your an easy target for family