Thanks for the feedback. I'm not currently seeing a therapist, so I may need to leave this up to her best girl friends.

Now on to a more personal and kinda selfish thing... Anyone have any advice for me on how to deal with this? Not knowing if she's ever coming back to me is killing me, and seeing her like this might be one of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with. I have a prescription for Xanax as well (for when I have moments of intense depression or insomnia) and I've been going through them at an alarming rate all week just to stay OK. I guess I'm looking for word of encouragement or that it's gonna be OK or something. I really have no idea...