My feelings are of despair and frustration. My husband is mentally abusive since he started seeing someone. He doesn't hide his feelings for her as he always leaves for work an hour earlier than normal and has an excuse about why he will be late from work, he has to go by the store and pick up something etc. He comes home red faced and run's around the house for about an hour or so avoiding me before he settles down.We have been together almost eleven years so I know him well. He no longer is affectionate towards me as before he was. In his address book he has her name and address listed and she only lives 3 miles from where we live. morals and integrity no longer play a part.