I kinda feel like I need to explain my response. Sis's post IS gorgeous and romantic, I agree. But I think it's idealistic and therefore not practical. Sis is in the honeymoon phase of a r/s - everything still looks possible. But for a couple who are trying to stay together in a traditional r/s after 40 years - Idk. I'm not sure what I want to say. I agree h is not really mad about the money, but about what it represents. But sis is telling rainbow what it represents to sIs, instead of rainbow saying what It means to raInbow. And then I was going by the legality of the situation - the money belongs to both of us.