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Originally Posted by healed84
I can't have both. I can't let people in a emotionally intimate way and have people be close in a physical way. I think that is a lot of my issues, with me and my H. I am physically intimate with him, so I have hard time really sharing sharing my heart with him. The same goes for T in a sense. Not that I plan on being physical with him in anyways. However, b/c of the stuff I shared with him, probably him sitting next to me, or us hugging, could not happen.
Just wanted to share.
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When you say "people" do you only experience this with men? Have you explored this with your T? Given some experiences that many of us have had in the past, IMO it would not be odd to not be comfortable with men where you let yourself be vulnerable...
like other people on PC have said... s*x is just s*x it's not for intimacy...but its really difficult to be vulnerable enough to have it be both.. anyway....just some thoughts that came to mind reading your posts...