CE, you know I love you and would never seek out to hurt you. I hope you don't mind my asking and I don't know if anyone else has asked you or I missed a thread while I was away. Why do you think your T is out to get you? I do empathize and understand the feeling. I've felt that way about my own T before. Have you considered that it might not be true? Every time I've felt that way, I've been proven wrong. Even when I think she is just engaging in a power struggle, it has consistently turned out to be for my benefit.