I think you have made great progress. I think we have as a group. We have grown as a group and as individuals.

I'm kInd of surprised to hear t and h don't support your being here. I think I said when you first came here that h had something to hide. I think t & h both have a vested interest in maintaining the status quo. Meaning, you don't grow or change or gain insight.

So I am very surprised that you are asking if you are being selfish. I wasn't even going to answer that question. I was like, where did that come from?? She's asking the wrong question, what a dope!! (Just saying that to assure you of my honesty!) But now I'm like, are those people calling my choppy selfish?? They are going to have to deal with me first!! I don't see it at all. I see it more as people taking advantage of you, and expecting too much of you, because you are smarter than the average bear. But nobody ever protected you, so you don't really know how to take good care of yourself, except when it comes to a desperate point. Your neck hurts TOO much, or something extreme like that - THEN it's okay to stop and pay attention to yourself. I still want you to find a nice cute male psychoanalytical t. (Not only like mine, I think Ellie may has one too. Or like earthmammas, even tho that's a woman.)