I think sis's letter keeps getting quoted as a software glitch, it comes up Everytime I try to respond to anything. Adel, I'm sorry you feel badly. It's true, this is a huge topic. It's like the gist of the feminist movement almost, or one of the bones. As such, I think it triggers many of us. I hope rainbow isn't taking it as a personal criticism. I think her other recent thread on the subject shows she has made real progress on this. I feel more like we're just kicking around the soccer ball here.