then how do people usually get jobs then? i'm pretty sure you're asking,"Really?" isn't it through good friends that you get some jobs in case you can't find any? I'm an only child, and I just need someone to be in my life so that I don't have to be lonely all the time. My friends are busy at the moment, all the time. They have so many assignments for their ap classes. And I heard from one therapist that if you don't start making friends now, it'll be harder for you. but i'm starting to doubt that because all of you have said that you've all gone your separate ways so there must be change. i hope i can find a few good friends in life.