I spend half my time telling him to get going, get out of bed, do the dishes for your mom like you said you would last night, call this person, you have an appointment today, you haven't eaten today, #$&%!
This as how my husband was before he got the correct Dx. and medication. Can he go to county mental health?
Not saying much about is not saying he doesn't care but he doesn't know how to handle it. The best way is to blurt it out to T right as s/he asks the first questions.