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Yup you guessed it!
We must only offer support for behaviors and patterns that are on-going.

For example:
Personal A: I looked at pictures of my T and her family again, but I made sure there weren't pictures of her kids. I know my T is NOT happy with it, but its ok, I needed it. I did look at her husband, because I wanted to.

Person B: Good job!... for not looking at the kids. Who cares if your T doesn't like it... if that were the case, then she should take it off Facebook. Do whatever you feel you need! (irregardless of your T's boundaries or discussion you had with her)

Never encourage a person to reflect on their actions, no matter what they are. Introspection is out.
Support behaviors and patterns... even if they are on-going for years. Change and growth is so over-rated.