hey CE i was going to respond to Ellie's post (HI ELLIE) .but decided it was more for you . i would hope that you would not feel less supported here because of your gender. i know for me it was harder to know how to support when you stated that the decision was made and that there was nothing we would be able to say to change it. so i kind of took that for what you said. i think if this T is not giving you what you want and that you have decided it best to not see her anymore i can support you in that if you would like. it is just hard to know. you state your done but continue on with her and the issues. it would be nice to see you be able to work things out with this T as you have invested a lot of time .but digging in and,being stubborn isn't going to move you any closer to a resolution.