Hi Rhapsody

I just found out last week that my son watched a porn film. It came out while we were having our dinner because we were talking about relationships. There was a TV discussion the night before and one of the questions the TV presenter asked was "is France becoming pornographic"? On radio stations in the morning they are always talking about relationships but in a pornographic way, so I said to my children that this sort of pornographic language is not real love. To that the kids replied "yes mum we know porn film are not real love" so I asked them if they had watched one and they said yes, by mistake a friend brought a film which he downloaded from the net, when they had put it on it ended up being a porn film but with the same title as the original film, which was just an ordinary film. I was shocked. Especially my youngest boy is 16. I am so afraid sometimes. On the news here we often here about girls being caught in collective rape. That's what it's called. It often happens to people that do not have a dialogue at home with the parents. I think it's really very important that you talk with your son about it. If he's friend is at your place then you could always tell him that he can do what he likes in his house but he should not impose on your son to watch porn. If his parents let him watch them then that's fine but no way should he get your son involved in this. It's not always easy to know what our children get up but we have to do our best to protect them. I think your doing everything you can Rhapsody but there is a limit and your son will just have to try to be responsable of his actions. He is probably a lovely boy who is someone responsable and it's probably just curiosity. I wish I could help you more Rhapsody.

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