Try to explain if I feel I'm being misunderstood.

But TBH, I'm not sure whether I've really gotten into some serious fight here- I don't post that much for it to happen- I have never felt attacked, that's for sure.
Once I unintentionally hurt the OP, realised that and apologised cause I was really out of line- don't know what came over me, but at least I've learnt my lesson.