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Originally Posted by SlowMoMo
Ok. Let me get this straight...
If I go work out, read, learn an art, and try to be funny, any girl will want to be with me?
That seems very shallow. You have to remember which forum section you are in. In the end of the day I will continue to be Avoidant.
You make it seem like I just have to be a superficial guy and any girl will accept me for who I am....
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Confidence and self acceptance.
Easy to say, difficult to find. I believe with every bit of my being that life is a self fulfilling prophecy, and as superficial as it seems to say fake it until you make it, it rings true. You cannot convince yourself that you are a worthy person without taking actions to treat yourself as such, only mental conditioning and being actionable can make you see yourself in a positive light.