I think when dealing with adults they should be treated like adults, not children. My mother included. I am not here to teach her anything, I just do what I have to do to keep myself sane. I was joking when I said "that will teach her", because she's a narcissist, nothing will teach her.

I am "supposed" to go to a group cancer meeting now. T encourages these, I hate them. Really don't want to listen to the whole "who's cancer is worse" routine. I hate whining complaining people. Plus it's a depressing place, I'd rather hang with the living.

I can't drink alcohol because of side effects from treatment.