I don't. I hate hugs that are just friendly, terms of endearment, honey, sugar, all that stuff. Hate with passion.

I had a gf at work at some point. She was married to a middle manager from Apple, named Eric. Eric was at some point her colleague at another company, before Apple.

Because they used to work together, she was able to get helpful tips from him in her field. So every evening, she would come home, go take a shower, and, in the shower, tell him about her workday. I am sure she was violating her NDA. I forgot to ask her how Eric was able to hear her talk despite the noise of running water. So that was happening every workday.

She was pretty with a good enough figure, no problem.

He would not have sex with her ever. During courtship, they were like rabbits, but not when married.

Eric saw her naked every night and all that he could come up with in reaction to her nudity was advice on coding (programming) and advice on handling the workplace. Her nudity never aroused him.

But he did call her sugar in my presence and was ever so nice and supportive that I found it syrupy.

In my book,a man who initiates groping when his wife has just taken her shower is preferable to Eric by a large margin. I personally have not experienced either extreme, but if I had to choose, I would choose the groping man over Erric.