Anika, I have changed in positive ways, true, thank you for confirming that. I thought of it this morning when I treated myself to a brunch at the local German bakery (since I used to live in Germany, I like the bakery).

I was alone by myself for the first time. Without ex, or ex and the children. And I was thoroughly enjoying just being by myself. That is progress.

I was thinking: BEFORE I got the assessment from Rosalie, PhD in psychology, you said that I had dependent traits and Ophelia said that I was submissive to ex. That is exactly what Rosalie wrote in her report. But you said it BEFORE.

Neither you nor Ophelia are college educated. Let alone graduate school.

I think this is something.