I'm getting ready to move to a different state and start a new job. In the meantime, I'm driving 90 miles each way to the job I have currently. I have enough to do right now just dealing with all that!

And no, I'm not waiting to get better -- I put in 8 years of therapy already and I feel fine. I'm not depressed, most days I like myself, and I've done as much work on the trauma as I feel the need to do for now. The anxiety is always there, the severity waxes and wanes, though. My pdoc is all over me about going back to therapy, and I just don't think I need it right now. But I'm willing to entertain suggestions. ;-)