Well, we're talking more now, I've not brought up the online flirting, because I obtained the information a bit underhandedly. I know that it's not good to keep anything under wraps, but as long as he keeps it online and not in real life, and is attentive to me in all other ways, I'm good. The cybersex to me is like me reading a Harlequin romance novel, or having a daydream about that hot guy at work. What we have is the REAL thing, and what he talks about with those girls or what I daydream about Hot Guy At Work is just a chance for both of us to be perfect in a sexual situation, which neither of us feel sometimes. I still believe that we love each other for who we are, but everyone needs that chance to feel perfect, to have that little escape valve. My problem was that he was escaping a little too often, and not focusing on us. He hit the neighbor's car this morning, no person or vehicle was damaged, thank God, but we dealt with it together, and before he left for work, he hugged me and said "Thank you for being supportive.", which shows me that he WAS paying attention to all my "nagging", even though he wasn't showing it at the time. Have a great day everyone!