Well, that is excellent, because it means that in the worst case scenario (let us call the possibility of a divorce a worst case scenario, just to have a naming convention, even if arbitrary), you will have an amicable divorce. Amicable divorces are way better than conflict-ridden divorces from two very important standpoints: 1) the impact on the child/children involved, and 2) less importantly, but still - it costs far less money.

So, the situation is unclear, it might or might not lead to a separation, we do not have a crystal ball here so we do not know what will eventually ensue, but even if you end up divorcing, you will be able to establish a productive co-parenting relationship post divorce and save money. This is HUGE.