I am not sure that the mass marketing approach is the best way to find your soul mate. I tell my daughter that she needs to fish in a high quality pond. If you fish in the sewer you can guess what you may find. I do not mean that to be snobby or anything, but I think we need to go the places where the kind of people that we are interested in and attracted to also hang out. I met the man who is now my husband at a science lecture at the University. I say though to each their own, but who you interact with makes all the difference in the world