Thank you....my thoughts are going out of control right now....I know he is going through such a traumatic time...I wrote him a message on facebook to ask how he is doing...he saw the message but hasn't responded....I know grief can do so many things to people and I'm afraid that terrible thing will cause him to break up with me....is it selfish of me to be even thinking about that when I should just be thinking about how he is holding up? Sorry...my thoughts are all over the place and have been for awhile now....it's really nice to have somewhere to put them down into words.