Why do you assume there is something wrong with you? I would say, what is wrong with a person who would say something mean like that, even in so-called jest? Plus are you sure she is who she says she is? I know I'm a different generation, but you kids spend a lot of time in dreamland - ie on the internet - and think you're getting to know each other, no offense. I would be happier if you would recognize, hmm maybe not as sweet as I thought... maybe this person has abandonment issues and so we are not a good match...