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Originally Posted by Fleury29
When I was quiet, people didn't like that. When I tried talking to people, I found no one would let me join in on group conversations. So I decided to go to one on one conversations, no one likes me then either. It always seems I am wrong no matter what I do. I used to daydream about having friends, but not anymore, no one seems to want to explain what I am doing wrong, just shun me for any little thing I do. It can be something as simple as looking in the wrong direction, or talking at the wrong time, or any number of things, it is getting to the point where I just don't care anymore and will just go back to not talking at all, since no one will tell me what it is I can do to not make people like me. All I can understand is they don't like me, and I don't really understand why. I'm fairly certain I have aspergers.
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I can totally relate to what you've said. They told me to come out of my shell, but when I did, they said, "Go back in!"
Someone advised me about people, "Be cautious." Very complex mammals with complex cultures. I found some books by Leil Lowndes helpful. Practical stuff to try and it was helpful, but I still have no friends. At least I have my husband, now.