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Originally Posted by H3rmit
Yes, I think there is no need to take this personally. It wasn't directed at you. This person may not know you had an eating disorder. People are insensitive and use words loosely. It was just a pun. I find it amusing, but it would be bad taste to post it say in a group of people with the disorder.
Facebook is a trashy company and the system tends to plaster things all over the place where they are unwanted. Your situation is a case in point. I had to get off there because my BPD relative would rant her questionable reactions all over the place all the time. It was painful to see her assassinating her future employment potential when an employer googles that stuff.
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I do see how it would be amusing, though I guess I just found it more distasteful/tacky. But something about it is still bothering me and that's what I find interesting/thought-provoking. Thanks for the support. I'd like to see if/how she responds. If she's dismissive, I may delete her from my friend list (to avoid similar posts from showing up on my news feed), because we haven't spoken in years anyway. We used to run together in a group several years back, but weren't ever really close. Yeah, personally I don't put anything on facebook that I wouldn;t want others to see. I even asked a friend to take down pics of me drinking at a party, because I work with kids and you never know what might get out.