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Originally Posted by stopdog
I am not so sure about the should have part of this. In an ideal world perhaps that is what marriage would mean (I don't believe this but I see it as the construct that is set up in western civilization). It is not always possible to do with a spouse. I just intended to separate the two ideas. I was not trying to indicate a should one way or the other.
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Interesting... I guess I feel the feeling for her should be reserved (if I am going to have them at all) should be for the person I am committed to. However, I am really learning as I go.. LOL.
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