It really ticks me off when underhandedly other women especially, wreak things that I valued. The bond that Lar and I developed took awhile. for that matter we had been sharing after meetings for over a year. these women did not belong to the group even a year ago. They have no knowledge "truly " of our knowing one another. The past is past and I will not go back.

I am upset at them for the witchy way that they caused mental caos. In other words that information could have been revealed with the right questions, conversations that were to both of us with questions that were direct, instead of gross assumptions, and codependant behaviour on their part, such as brain picking of a guy that was vulnerable and trusting of the entire program, not fullly aware of their alterious motives, wheather they were telling themselves that they were resqueing the guy from soon tragity. Placing doom and gloom and destruction on his mind was witchy and gross. Assuming that the worst was taking place between me and Lar, was evil. It was wrong. It was clever and it worked. Yes it worked. Just because it was very successful dosen't make it best or for that matter right.

It was right of course to the group of women and to Lar in the ending. But it really was not right.

Yes they "Suggest " not getting involved in any relationships thaat are close for a year while you are in the program. But it is a suggestion. We have been in recovery for more than a year. He for a year and me for a year and actually 3 years with a slip here or there. So I wanted to vent.